Friday, February 18, 2011

Not "Good-bye" but "See You Later"


Russell, my 27-year-old nephew, passed away on Valentine's Day. We had a small graveside service for him yesterday. It was the second funeral we had planned for him. The first one was planned over 10 years ago. Russell was on his "death-bed" in October 2000. The doctors told the family that he would pass soon so we began planning his funeral. The funeral home was on stand by. My brother and I planned the service. My dad offered a plot that he owned in a local cemetary. Everything was in order.

Only Russell didn't die.

He lived 10 more years.

Finally, his enlarged heart was tired and it quit beating Monday morning. We are sad that Russell is gone but we celebrate that we had him for as long as we did. Everyone knew that he would probably die at a young age. We just didn't know when that would be.

So we were always glad to see him. Always welcomed his smile. And we laughed with him often. (He had a great sense of humor and pretty quick-witted.)

As I closed the service yesterday, I reminded our family and friends that because we have the promise of heaven through Jesus we do not say "good-bye" but "See you later." We will see Russell again in a healthy, transformed body. He brought joy to us for 27 years. Now he brings joy to others in a place that is impossible to describe. A place where the Bible says our greatest asset will be used as pavement.

See you later, Russ!

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